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How to Become the Master Lover

How to Become the Master Lover with Intimacy Coach Elisa Popescu


Warning: Dads, this episode is explicit. Make sure you’re not with the kids while listening. 

Today, we are going to talk about how to become a Master Lover.

After we get married and have kids, we step into the role of dad. Our wives go into mothering mode, and we lose the all-consuming passion that we felt in the beginning of the relationship.

50% of couples are dissatisfied with their sex lives.  2/3 of couples feel they don’t have sex often enough. Why is it so hard to keep the excitement and attraction going?

Elisa Popescu is an Intimacy and Relationship coach and the creator of The Master Lover Program. She is going to tell us the 5 Core Needs of a Woman and how we can use them to ignite our wives’ sexual energy. She also identifies the 5 Core Needs of Men and how being aware of them will help us take the lead and get back to that primal bedroom experience we crave.

Don’t miss this hot show that will revolutionize the sex lives of both husbands and wives!

Elisa Popescu

Elisa Popescu is an Intimacy & Relationship Coach, teaching men how to bridge the gap between Sexuality & Spirituality and create deeply satisfying relationships with their women, through her V.I.P. Program for Men “The Master Lover” & her popular 90 min Intimacy Breakthrough Session.

Elisa`s gift is to arouse your mind & Soul and help you reconnect to your inner wisdom, sensuality and ability to let loose, in a world that puts so much pressure on us.

Her love for people and education has lead Elisa to create The Shameless Academy, an unapologetic educational platform where through her podcast, videos, coaching & events she hopes to plant more seeds of Shameless Wisdom within every open mind.

Being sexual and spiritual have the same power and importance.

What You’ll Learn

  • Why we become uncomfortable or feel we’re lacking in a monogamous relationship
  • How to think about your intimate relationship so it will thrive:
    • Believe that your intimate relationship is a divine gift
    • Understand that it is the most painful and rewarding process of growth
    • Realize that it’s the purest reflection of the relationship you have with yourself
  • Why our relationships are so satisfying in the beginning, but dwindle as time goes on
  • The stages of a relationship
    • The honeymoon phase – when we are more open to satisfying our partners’ needs
    • Moving into together – when we begin to discover each other’s flaws
    • Blending in with each other – a long-term relationship where a couple must co-create a life together
  • How to use the ‘love bank’
  • Complacency doesn’t mean your spouse doesn’t care. The focus shifts on family
  • The man becomes the protector and provider
  • The woman becomes nurturer instead of lover
  • 5 Core Needs of a Woman:
    • Affection
    • Intimate conversations
    • Honesty and openness
    • Financial support
    • Commitment to family
  • How fulfilling these core needs will help a woman open up emotionally and sexually
  • 5 Core Needs of a Man:
    • Sexual satisfaction
    • Relaxing company
    • Physical Attraction
    • Peace and Comfort at Home
    • Admiration
  • How men who are not connected to their emotional needs act from their lower selves
  • How the sexual dynamics change depending on the role we take. When your wife sees you as dad, she steps into mom mode.
  • Why it’s important to get away to a hotel or different location other than home to reconnect sexually
  • How to flirt and court in a way that your woman will be receptive to
  • Why you should encourage your woman to become mysterious to you—push her to follow her passions, take trips on her own, and spend time with her girlfriends. Who was she? How did she spend her time before she met you? Help your wife create space between who she is as a woman and who she is as a wife and mother
  • Why you shouldn’t try to hide your woman for yourself. You have to allow her to shine.
  • Why sometimes women just need to be dominated sexually
  • What cues women give off for a man to know when it’s time to be primal
  • How to do something different physically to break monotonous modes and patterns
  • If your woman is depressed or irritable, sometimes the giving her sex is the answer. Don’t wait for her to ask for sex. It will put her in a masculine role.
  • Being sexual and spiritual have the same power and importance
  • Awareness is the key to everything. Be aware of both your needs and keep them all in balance.

You can’t revive the chemistry in the same space you lost it.


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Marriage Partnership

Marriage Partnership in Action

Last month for Thursday Throwdown, we covered the 4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage with Lance Salazar. Over 4 weeks, he broke it down into: The Individual, The Partnership, Becoming Friends, and Becoming Lovers. Today I’m going to talk about the marriage partnership in action.

I applied a quasi business-like approach to working with my wife to make sure we were on the same page when it came to responsibilities. This included a weekly meeting where we “frontloaded” and planned everything in advance, from who was taking the kids to school to what we were having for dinner. We even synchronized our schedule in a Google calendar. Is it worth doing all this tedious planning? How does it benefit our marriage?

Listen and find out!

Don’t forget to catch up with the other episodes in this series!

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 1—The Individual

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 2—The Partnership

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 3—Becoming Friends

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 4—Becoming Lovers

 

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A Wife's Thoughts on The Dad Edge Alliance and Summit

A Wife’s Thoughts on The Dad Edge Alliance and Summit

Today is a first. We not only have a longtime Dad Edge Alliance member on Thursday Throwdown, we have his wife! If you have been thinking about joining The Dad Edge Alliance or attending our Dad Edge Summit this summer, but are wondering how your wife will feel about the idea, this interview with Javier and Suzanne will show you what happens when a man finds his tribe.

Javier and Suzanne have been together for 14 years and are parents. They had a fairy tale beginning, but once real life kicked in, intense fights and break ups left open wounds. Javier opens up about his struggles as a man. He tells us how The Dad Edge Alliance helped him grow and how the Dad Edge Summit catalyzed all he had learned into a clear vision for the future.

His wife, Suzanne, gets real about the marriage problems they had and how beneficial The Dad Edge Alliance and Dad Edge Summit have been to their relationship as a couple and a family.

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becoming a great husband

Black Belt Husband with Quentin Hafner

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the expectations placed on you as a husband? Are you confused about what exactly your wife needs from you? Is your marriage in a rut but you don’t know the first step to getting out?

Today’s guest is Quentin Hafner, author of Black Belt Husband: A Marriage Book for Men. He’s a couples counselor by day and a Brazilian jujitsu practitioner by night. Quentin has developed a methodology to becoming a great husband inspired by the martial arts belt system.

There is no need to feel hopeless when your marriage hits a wall, even if the sex has all but disappeared and you and your spouse at moments hate each other. Quentin Hafner breaks it all down for us in this episode!

'What’s different about a relationship today is that women have an expectation that men can fulfill them emotionally...'—Quentin Hafner, Black Belt Husband #marriage #men #manhood #relationships Click To Tweet

What You’ll Learn

  • Why did Quentin Hafner decided to write Black Belt Husband
  • Why most guys aren’t interested in mainstream relationship books
  • How your actions are a choice, your feelings are not a choice
  • How marital bliss will naturally subside in between 6 and 24 months
  • How to stop judging your own feelings
  • How having uncomfortable feelings about your marriage is common
  • How everybody has the feeling of hating their spouse at some time
  • How negative feelings doesn’t mean your marriage is broken, only that a problem needs to be addressed
  • Quentin’s mission to normalize these feelings so men don’t panic
  • How not to react to your feelings, but instead correct your course
  • The two main things that silently destroy a marriage
    • Apathy – being too casual, leaving the relationship on cruise control. Marriages are like a living organism that needs nurturing and tending to.
    • Understanding the importance of offering your wife an emotional connection – Marriages from 2018 are hugely different from 1975. Women have an expectation of emotional fulfilment. Being a provider is not enough and most guys struggle with how to do that.
  • How to understand your own needs as a man
  • How to communicate those needs to your wife
  • Why listening to your wife is only half the equation
  • To offer the full emotional connection requires you to share
  • Women are desperate for men to share, to find out about the person they are with
  • A man’s options in an argument
  • Why shutting down emotionally is like drinking your own poison
  • How taking risks and being honest about your feelings is like magic to your marriage
  • How being “the rock” for your spouse is the biggest myth
  • The similarities between the journey through marriage and jujitsu
  • Quentin’s belt system for becoming a great husband
    • White belt – being coachable and open minded
    • Blue belt – building self-confidence and internal strength
    • Purple belt – becoming well-rounded
    • Brown belt – being a great leader in marriage
    • Black belt – mastery
  • How sex for women is a completely emotional experience and they need to feel extremely secure and attached to have a healthy libido
  • Advice to men in a sexless marriage
  • Why you shouldn’t hesitate to get professional help
'Your job as a husband is not to become a mini-therapist to your wife.'—Quentin Hafner, Black Belt Husband #marriage #husbands #men #fathers #manhood #communication Click To Tweet

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guide to women

Ultimate Guide to Demystifying Women with Robert Kandell


Men are supposed to be strong and silent, right? We think if we work hard and provide we will be rewarded. This is what our culture has taught us, and this is what we think women want. But this idea is becoming obsolete in today’s society.

The world has changed drastically when it comes to the roles of men and women. The patriarchy humans lived in for thousands of years has shifted. Women have evolved but men have stayed the same. It’s time for us to catch up.

Today’s guest, Robert Kandell, is the host of the Tuff Love podcast and the author of the upcoming book unHIDDEN: A Book for Men & Those Confused by Them. He gives us the ultimate guide to demystifying women and tells us how to connect to ourselves so that our women can have what they want most, which is all of us.

'Women want the evolved man. The complicated man. The dynamic man ... They want to see all of you.'—@RobertKandell #men #marriage #women #relationships #vulnerability #masculinity Click To Tweet

Robert Kandell

Robert Kandell is a veteran of many worlds. He has spent time in corporate America, a start-up, a small computer shop, and then built an international 8-figure business based on relationship, intimacy and sexuality. He currently runs a successful consulting firm helping small businesses to become marketable and profitable. In addition to his business and management skills, Robert is an accomplished teacher, coach, and lecturer, helping men find themselves and utilize their internal power.

What You’ll Learn

  • Why men are so quiet about what’s going on in their minds
  • How most men know something is wrong with themselves and their relationships, but they can’t tell what it is
  • How hiding your fears and weaknesses from your woman hurts your relationship
  • How women want both Spartan strength and little-boy vulnerability at the right times
  • Why women want all aspects of their men
  • Why men need to connect to all aspects of themselves to give their woman everything she needs
  • What judgements block you from making those connections
  • How to get into the flow of self-discovery instead of fighting it
  • Confronting issues with your partner
  • Investigating different ways around communication
  • Practicing ways to implement new information
  • Integrating all you’ve learned into your life
  • Why withholding your struggles from your wife is an unconscious form of chauvinism
  • Difference between connecting with your wife and being a whiny baby
  • Why shaking things up is a huge turn on
  • The shame that runs our lives and blocks us from growing
  • Confronting sexual shame and guilt
  • How Robert Kandell opened up to his wife about his porn issue
  • The butterfly effect of free porn and how it leads to erectile dysfunction and prevents us from connecting with our wives
  • How porn activates the hunter and trains our brain to be addicted to novelty
  • The magical powers of communication
  • How to create communication containers
  • How to be a listener as well as a communicator
  • Robert Kandell’s most important advice as a dad raising two preteen step daughters

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