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How to Become the Master Lover

How to Become the Master Lover with Intimacy Coach Elisa Popescu


Warning: Dads, this episode is explicit. Make sure you’re not with the kids while listening. 

Today, we are going to talk about how to become a Master Lover.

After we get married and have kids, we step into the role of dad. Our wives go into mothering mode, and we lose the all-consuming passion that we felt in the beginning of the relationship.

50% of couples are dissatisfied with their sex lives.  2/3 of couples feel they don’t have sex often enough. Why is it so hard to keep the excitement and attraction going?

Elisa Popescu is an Intimacy and Relationship coach and the creator of The Master Lover Program. She is going to tell us the 5 Core Needs of a Woman and how we can use them to ignite our wives’ sexual energy. She also identifies the 5 Core Needs of Men and how being aware of them will help us take the lead and get back to that primal bedroom experience we crave.

Don’t miss this hot show that will revolutionize the sex lives of both husbands and wives!

Elisa Popescu

Elisa Popescu is an Intimacy & Relationship Coach, teaching men how to bridge the gap between Sexuality & Spirituality and create deeply satisfying relationships with their women, through her V.I.P. Program for Men “The Master Lover” & her popular 90 min Intimacy Breakthrough Session.

Elisa`s gift is to arouse your mind & Soul and help you reconnect to your inner wisdom, sensuality and ability to let loose, in a world that puts so much pressure on us.

Her love for people and education has lead Elisa to create The Shameless Academy, an unapologetic educational platform where through her podcast, videos, coaching & events she hopes to plant more seeds of Shameless Wisdom within every open mind.

Being sexual and spiritual have the same power and importance.

What You’ll Learn

  • Why we become uncomfortable or feel we’re lacking in a monogamous relationship
  • How to think about your intimate relationship so it will thrive:
    • Believe that your intimate relationship is a divine gift
    • Understand that it is the most painful and rewarding process of growth
    • Realize that it’s the purest reflection of the relationship you have with yourself
  • Why our relationships are so satisfying in the beginning, but dwindle as time goes on
  • The stages of a relationship
    • The honeymoon phase – when we are more open to satisfying our partners’ needs
    • Moving into together – when we begin to discover each other’s flaws
    • Blending in with each other – a long-term relationship where a couple must co-create a life together
  • How to use the ‘love bank’
  • Complacency doesn’t mean your spouse doesn’t care. The focus shifts on family
  • The man becomes the protector and provider
  • The woman becomes nurturer instead of lover
  • 5 Core Needs of a Woman:
    • Affection
    • Intimate conversations
    • Honesty and openness
    • Financial support
    • Commitment to family
  • How fulfilling these core needs will help a woman open up emotionally and sexually
  • 5 Core Needs of a Man:
    • Sexual satisfaction
    • Relaxing company
    • Physical Attraction
    • Peace and Comfort at Home
    • Admiration
  • How men who are not connected to their emotional needs act from their lower selves
  • How the sexual dynamics change depending on the role we take. When your wife sees you as dad, she steps into mom mode.
  • Why it’s important to get away to a hotel or different location other than home to reconnect sexually
  • How to flirt and court in a way that your woman will be receptive to
  • Why you should encourage your woman to become mysterious to you—push her to follow her passions, take trips on her own, and spend time with her girlfriends. Who was she? How did she spend her time before she met you? Help your wife create space between who she is as a woman and who she is as a wife and mother
  • Why you shouldn’t try to hide your woman for yourself. You have to allow her to shine.
  • Why sometimes women just need to be dominated sexually
  • What cues women give off for a man to know when it’s time to be primal
  • How to do something different physically to break monotonous modes and patterns
  • If your woman is depressed or irritable, sometimes the giving her sex is the answer. Don’t wait for her to ask for sex. It will put her in a masculine role.
  • Being sexual and spiritual have the same power and importance
  • Awareness is the key to everything. Be aware of both your needs and keep them all in balance.

You can’t revive the chemistry in the same space you lost it.


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4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 4—Becoming Lovers Lance Salazar

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 4—Becoming Lovers

Today we wrap up our 4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage series with Lance Salazar covering the subject we’ve all been waiting for—sex. Sex is a big deal when it comes to marriage, but it’s also the toughest thing to talk about.

  • How can we make our needs known?
  • How can we understand what our spouses really want?
  • How much sex should couples be having?

This quick episode covers everything from the right way to flirt to how to leverage a woman’s cycle. Don’t miss out on these secrets for becoming lovers in your marriage!

Don’t forget to catch up with the other episodes in this series!

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 1—The Individual

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 2—The Partnership

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 3—Becoming Friends

 

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becoming friends with your spouse

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 3—Becoming Friends

Remember when you and your spouse used to have fun together? You never ran out of things to talk about and you always had each other’s backs.

Then adulting got in the way—kids, jobs, stress. Sometimes it feels like you have nothing to talk about anymore and the distance between you grows.

Lance Salazar is back on for Part 3 of our 4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Series. Today is devoted to becoming friends with your spouse again.

Lance gives us three key components to maintaining a close friendship with our spouses. They are:

  1. Deep Knowing
  2. Quality Time
  3. Being Present

Happy marriages are based on deep friendship and continuous fun. They’re about knowing your partner intimately—from hopes and dreams, down to the most embarrassing moments of childhood. This bond helps a couple to overcome adversity and show up as better parents. Listen to how to rekindle your friendship with your spouse in this short episode!

Be sure to tune in next Thursday for the fourth episode with Lance Salazar, Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 4—Becoming Lovers!

 

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4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 1—The Individual

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 2—The Partnership

Becoming a Legendary Couple After the Kids

 


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Becoming a Legendary Couple After the Kids

Being a Good Dad with “The Miracle Morning”


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sexy marriage

Simple, Sexy Marriage with Dr. Corey Allan

Today we have Dr. Corey Allan on the show. He is a marriage and family therapist and the host of the Sexy Marriage Radio podcast, which has been going strong for seven years. Dr. Allan outlines most common problems couples bring to his office, including sex. In this conversation, we get granular about sex issues along with intimacy and pornography.

In his experience, Dr. Corey Allan estimates that that man has the higher desire for sex in 70% of marriages, but men tend to follow a script and don’t get creative with their wives. He tells us what we’re doing wrong when it comes to trying to get more sexual with our spouses and how to talk about it without putting them on the defense. He also talks about the 30% of marriages in which the woman has the higher desire for sex and how couples can manage that.

You may be surprised by his advice. Download this episode because you’ll want to listen to it again!

'A woman knows very well if the goal for the day is in her pants.'—Dr. Corey Allan @simplemarriage #marriage #sex #intimacy Click To Tweet

'We’re quick to blame our spouse for our troubles.'—Dr. Corey Allan @simplemarriage #marriage #sex #intimacy Click To Tweet

What You’ll Learn

  • How to improve the marriage you have
  • How to stop the blame cycle
  • Why you need to stop trying to fix your wife and instead fix yourself
  • How to invite good changes into your life
  • The main complaints from women
  • How the fear of rejection is magnified to a woman
  • How to be a student of your wife
  • Non-sexual touch
  • The 4 Most Common Marriage Problems:
    • Sex
    • Money
    • In-laws
    • Children
  • How to succeed by respecting your wife’s differences rather than trying win her over to your way of thinking
  • The danger of being attached to outcomes
  • The difference between functional sex and sex for intimacy
  • Two components of intimacy:
    • Knowing your partner
    • Being known yourself
  • How intimacy can be just as likely comfortable as uncomfortable
  • Why there’s nothing wrong with a wife who doesn’t want to have sex
  • How the higher desire spouse has to recognize the lower desire spouse
  • How women were wired to be responsive, not initiative
  • How men often try to manufacture a way to penetrate instead of encouraging a response
  • Why you have to live a life beyond your wife, a life that’s inspiring to her
  • If you’re with her, be present with her. Quality time is more effective than the quantity of time
  • Why you shouldn’t hover around your wife waiting for sex
  • How foreplay is a long play in marriage
  • Why a fully turned on woman can be terrifying for men
  • The debilitating effects of porn
  • How women want to be led their husbands
  • How the way you conduct yourself in life translates in the bedroom
'Everything we do in marriage communicates. Everything we do NOT do in marriage communicates.'—Dr. Corey Allan @simplemarriage Click To Tweet

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How to Optimize the 5 Dimensions of Manhood

Black Belt Husband with Quentin Hafner


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guide to women

Ultimate Guide to Demystifying Women with Robert Kandell


Men are supposed to be strong and silent, right? We think if we work hard and provide we will be rewarded. This is what our culture has taught us, and this is what we think women want. But this idea is becoming obsolete in today’s society.

The world has changed drastically when it comes to the roles of men and women. The patriarchy humans lived in for thousands of years has shifted. Women have evolved but men have stayed the same. It’s time for us to catch up.

Today’s guest, Robert Kandell, is the host of the Tuff Love podcast and the author of the upcoming book unHIDDEN: A Book for Men & Those Confused by Them. He gives us the ultimate guide to demystifying women and tells us how to connect to ourselves so that our women can have what they want most, which is all of us.

'Women want the evolved man. The complicated man. The dynamic man ... They want to see all of you.'—@RobertKandell #men #marriage #women #relationships #vulnerability #masculinity Click To Tweet

Robert Kandell

Robert Kandell is a veteran of many worlds. He has spent time in corporate America, a start-up, a small computer shop, and then built an international 8-figure business based on relationship, intimacy and sexuality. He currently runs a successful consulting firm helping small businesses to become marketable and profitable. In addition to his business and management skills, Robert is an accomplished teacher, coach, and lecturer, helping men find themselves and utilize their internal power.

What You’ll Learn

  • Why men are so quiet about what’s going on in their minds
  • How most men know something is wrong with themselves and their relationships, but they can’t tell what it is
  • How hiding your fears and weaknesses from your woman hurts your relationship
  • How women want both Spartan strength and little-boy vulnerability at the right times
  • Why women want all aspects of their men
  • Why men need to connect to all aspects of themselves to give their woman everything she needs
  • What judgements block you from making those connections
  • How to get into the flow of self-discovery instead of fighting it
  • Confronting issues with your partner
  • Investigating different ways around communication
  • Practicing ways to implement new information
  • Integrating all you’ve learned into your life
  • Why withholding your struggles from your wife is an unconscious form of chauvinism
  • Difference between connecting with your wife and being a whiny baby
  • Why shaking things up is a huge turn on
  • The shame that runs our lives and blocks us from growing
  • Confronting sexual shame and guilt
  • How Robert Kandell opened up to his wife about his porn issue
  • The butterfly effect of free porn and how it leads to erectile dysfunction and prevents us from connecting with our wives
  • How porn activates the hunter and trains our brain to be addicted to novelty
  • The magical powers of communication
  • How to create communication containers
  • How to be a listener as well as a communicator
  • Robert Kandell’s most important advice as a dad raising two preteen step daughters

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