If you are here, it most likely means you are a MARRIED DAD. There is a perception out there in today’s society that if you are a MARRIED DAD with a traditional family, there must not be any challenges or obstacles. That is simply not the case. If you are a married Dad, it means you most likely view yourself as the strength and rock of your family. It means you most likely quietly stress about the things that your wife and kids do not know about. It means you most likely work extremely hard at work because you know that life is not all about you…it’s about those amazing people around you. It also means at times you have to figure out how to juggle work time, kid time, quality time with your spouse, and perhaps a little bit of time for yourself somehow. Being in this situation, means you are pulled in several different directions. This page is dedicated especially for you. You will find valuable tips and tricks that will make your journey more enjoyable.

One Extraordinary Marriage

One Extraordinary Marriage with Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo


Today we’re going to focus in on our marriages. Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo are the hosts of the One Extraordinary Marriage podcast, which has been going nine years strong. They are also the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, 7 Days of Sex Challenge. When you listen to their actionable advice, you’ll understand how they’ve helped people from all over the world transform their relationships with their spouses. get ready to transform yours.

In this show, Tony and Alisa talk about:

  • How to become a proactive instead of reactive participant in your marriage
  • Why you need to take divorce off the table and go “all in”
  • How to approach your spouse with appreciation, not expectation
  • How to begin difficult conversations about raising kids, sex, and finances
  • What their 7 Days of Sex Challenge is all about and how it will make your marriage extraordinary

Learn the principles of keeping your marriage passionate, alive, and flourishing!

People look at love as a noun, but love is a verb. It’s action.

From Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo

“We have been married for 22 years and not all of them have been happy ones.  Like you, we came together with every good intention and “forever” in mind, but then “life” happened and we found ourselves ill prepared to deal with our marriage challenges.

Not only were we struggling as a couple, but also we were both struggling with our own personal hurdles independent of one another.  Our “bumps in the road” were actually mountains in our eyes and we knew that in order to get to the other side, keep our family together, and experience a loving, intimate marriage, we were going to need to dig deep and address our circumstances head-on.

Dealing with it all was our commitment to each other.  Together, we overcame Tony’s 18-year addiction to pornography, the loss of a child at 18 weeks, debt in excess of $50,000, poor communication, lack of collective interests, and questioning trust.  But, the key word here is “together”.

We’ve learned some hard knock life lessons and we’ve discovered key principles that have kept our marriage (and sex life) alive and flourishing… and we did it together.  We can do the same for you!”

Get ready to create one extraordinary marriage!

What You’ll Learn

  • What birthed the idea of the One Extraordinary Marriage podcast
  • How at one point in their marriage, Tony and Alisa’s options were to divorce now, divorce when the kids turned 18, or get radical
  • Their experience with a 60-Days of Sex Challenge
  • The oversight most of us make when it comes to marriage—we’re intentional about health and business and we’ll hire fitness coaches and financial advisors, but we assume that our relationship will work out on its own
  • The importance of becoming an active participant in marriage
  • Why leaving divorce on the table keeps us from committing to making a marriage work
  • What happens when we remove divorce as an option and have to go “all in”
  • Why you have to work on yourself individually as well as a couple
  • If you lost that loving feeling it’s probably because you haven’t taken any action
  • How men often wait for their spouses to tell them what they want when they should just ask
  • How to find out how to speak to your wife’s heart again
  • Why her definition of romance may have changed since you first fell in love
  • How to ask her the right questions and give her a safe space to answer you
  • The old-fashioned charm of handwritten love letters
  • How expectations can be destructive, especially if they stay in your head
  • Using appreciation to shift the energy between you and your spouse
  • The adversarial physical positions you should avoid when having and important conversation
  • How to be on the same team, shoulder to shoulder with the two of you against the problem, not each other
  • If you think brining up a subject like sex is going to feel weird, own it. Say that you feel awkward
  • Why you don’t have to fix everything before initiating a sex challenge
  • How to add a sex challenge into your schedule, even if you have kids
  • Alisa’s script you can use to open your wife up to the idea of doing a sex challenge
  • Why you should never talk about sex in the bedroom

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How to Optimize the 5 Dimensions of Manhood

Becoming a Legendary Couple After the Kids

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How to Light Your Woman Up

How to Light Your Woman Up with Brandy Salazar


Fifty percent of marriages end in divorce. Out of those that stay together, only seventeen percent report being happy. It seems like the odds are against us. Is it possible to take our marriages, whether they are meh or miserable, and transform them into passionate, thriving relationships?

Today we get a woman’s raw perspective. Brandy Salazar, co-author of The Miracle Morning for Couples, is back on the show. She talks about what we’re missing in marriages, communication secrets, and why your wife never seems to be “in the mood.” She also tells us how to get to know our wives on the deepest level so that we have fewer arguments, more fun, and the most amazing sex ever.

Gentlemen, you’ll want to take notes on this episode. Get ready to learn how to light your woman up!

Brandy Salazar

Brandy Salazar grew up in a dysfunctional home. At fifteen years old she found herself living with friends. She didn’t have a high school diploma. But that didn’t stop her from developing a six-figure real estate business. She met Lance and they got married. They had the house, the cars, the overly expensive shoes, but they were disconnected from each other. By the time they had their two daughters, their marriage was over. Brandy asked for a divorce.

Before making the final decision to end their marriage, Brandy and Lance gave it one more shot. What they realized is that they were not bringing their strengths to the marriage. The talents and effort they used to excel in business were not leveraged at home. When they approached their marriage with the right tools and mindset, they’re marriage went from hate and resentment to love and passion within thirty days.

You’re either growing or you’re dying

What You’ll Learn

  • How and why marriages fall into a boring routine
  • What motherhood does to a woman mentally and physically
  • How to focus on goals and a vision for your marriage instead of what’s wrong
  • Using a hat full of questions to become closer
  • The importance of investing in dates
  • Why women can become so overwhelmed and irritated
  • Planning out the logistics of household responsibilities so that everything gets done and you and your woman make space to relax and enjoy each other
  • Why you shouldn’t underestimate the power of taking out the trash
  • Staying curious about your partner
  • Defining partnership roles
  • Breaking patterns of complacency
  • How to communicate what you want without seeming needy
  • What inhibits women the most when it comes to sex
  • How to approach your woman with the same dedication you give to your business, health, or hobby
  • Getting your woman to a place where she feels sexy
  • The secret to leveraging your woman’s cycle for the best sex of your lives
  • How to fan the flame during sexual off-times
  • Switching neediness to desire
  • The right time to approach your woman about improving your marriage
  • Why your wife shouldn’t be your “everything”
  • Helping your wife to find herself again and grow so that she feels confident and empowered
  • Finding out what lights your woman up and brings her joy in a way that makes her more receptive to you
  • Why a woman sometimes takes on a masculine role
  • Why you need to be the servant leader of the household
  • What to do when you try everything you can to make her happy and nothing works

 

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4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 1—The Individual

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 2—The Partnership

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 3—Becoming Friends

Becoming a Legendary Couple After the Kids


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How to Become the Master Lover

How to Become the Master Lover with Intimacy Coach Elisa Popescu


Warning: Dads, this episode is explicit. Make sure you’re not with the kids while listening. 

Today, we are going to talk about how to become a Master Lover.

After we get married and have kids, we step into the role of dad. Our wives go into mothering mode, and we lose the all-consuming passion that we felt in the beginning of the relationship.

50% of couples are dissatisfied with their sex lives.  2/3 of couples feel they don’t have sex often enough. Why is it so hard to keep the excitement and attraction going?

Elisa Popescu is an Intimacy and Relationship coach and the creator of The Master Lover Program. She is going to tell us the 5 Core Needs of a Woman and how we can use them to ignite our wives’ sexual energy. She also identifies the 5 Core Needs of Men and how being aware of them will help us take the lead and get back to that primal bedroom experience we crave.

Don’t miss this hot show that will revolutionize the sex lives of both husbands and wives!

Elisa Popescu

Elisa Popescu is an Intimacy & Relationship Coach, teaching men how to bridge the gap between Sexuality & Spirituality and create deeply satisfying relationships with their women, through her V.I.P. Program for Men “The Master Lover” & her popular 90 min Intimacy Breakthrough Session.

Elisa`s gift is to arouse your mind & Soul and help you reconnect to your inner wisdom, sensuality and ability to let loose, in a world that puts so much pressure on us.

Her love for people and education has lead Elisa to create The Shameless Academy, an unapologetic educational platform where through her podcast, videos, coaching & events she hopes to plant more seeds of Shameless Wisdom within every open mind.

Being sexual and spiritual have the same power and importance.

What You’ll Learn

  • Why we become uncomfortable or feel we’re lacking in a monogamous relationship
  • How to think about your intimate relationship so it will thrive:
    • Believe that your intimate relationship is a divine gift
    • Understand that it is the most painful and rewarding process of growth
    • Realize that it’s the purest reflection of the relationship you have with yourself
  • Why our relationships are so satisfying in the beginning, but dwindle as time goes on
  • The stages of a relationship
    • The honeymoon phase – when we are more open to satisfying our partners’ needs
    • Moving into together – when we begin to discover each other’s flaws
    • Blending in with each other – a long-term relationship where a couple must co-create a life together
  • How to use the ‘love bank’
  • Complacency doesn’t mean your spouse doesn’t care. The focus shifts on family
  • The man becomes the protector and provider
  • The woman becomes nurturer instead of lover
  • 5 Core Needs of a Woman:
    • Affection
    • Intimate conversations
    • Honesty and openness
    • Financial support
    • Commitment to family
  • How fulfilling these core needs will help a woman open up emotionally and sexually
  • 5 Core Needs of a Man:
    • Sexual satisfaction
    • Relaxing company
    • Physical Attraction
    • Peace and Comfort at Home
    • Admiration
  • How men who are not connected to their emotional needs act from their lower selves
  • How the sexual dynamics change depending on the role we take. When your wife sees you as dad, she steps into mom mode.
  • Why it’s important to get away to a hotel or different location other than home to reconnect sexually
  • How to flirt and court in a way that your woman will be receptive to
  • Why you should encourage your woman to become mysterious to you—push her to follow her passions, take trips on her own, and spend time with her girlfriends. Who was she? How did she spend her time before she met you? Help your wife create space between who she is as a woman and who she is as a wife and mother
  • Why you shouldn’t try to hide your woman for yourself. You have to allow her to shine.
  • Why sometimes women just need to be dominated sexually
  • What cues women give off for a man to know when it’s time to be primal
  • How to do something different physically to break monotonous modes and patterns
  • If your woman is depressed or irritable, sometimes the giving her sex is the answer. Don’t wait for her to ask for sex. It will put her in a masculine role.
  • Being sexual and spiritual have the same power and importance
  • Awareness is the key to everything. Be aware of both your needs and keep them all in balance.

You can’t revive the chemistry in the same space you lost it.


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Marriage Partnership

Marriage Partnership in Action

Last month for Thursday Throwdown, we covered the 4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage with Lance Salazar. Over 4 weeks, he broke it down into: The Individual, The Partnership, Becoming Friends, and Becoming Lovers. Today I’m going to talk about the marriage partnership in action.

I applied a quasi business-like approach to working with my wife to make sure we were on the same page when it came to responsibilities. This included a weekly meeting where we “frontloaded” and planned everything in advance, from who was taking the kids to school to what we were having for dinner. We even synchronized our schedule in a Google calendar. Is it worth doing all this tedious planning? How does it benefit our marriage?

Listen and find out!

Don’t forget to catch up with the other episodes in this series!

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 1—The Individual

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 2—The Partnership

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 3—Becoming Friends

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 4—Becoming Lovers

 

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How to Optimize The Structure of Work, Family, and Fulfillment with Dave Hollis

Becoming a Legendary Couple After the Kids

How to Optimize the 5 Dimensions of Manhood


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4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 4—Becoming Lovers Lance Salazar

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 4—Becoming Lovers

Today we wrap up our 4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage series with Lance Salazar covering the subject we’ve all been waiting for—sex. Sex is a big deal when it comes to marriage, but it’s also the toughest thing to talk about.

  • How can we make our needs known?
  • How can we understand what our spouses really want?
  • How much sex should couples be having?

This quick episode covers everything from the right way to flirt to how to leverage a woman’s cycle. Don’t miss out on these secrets for becoming lovers in your marriage!

Don’t forget to catch up with the other episodes in this series!

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 1—The Individual

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 2—The Partnership

4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Part 3—Becoming Friends

 

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How to Optimize the 5 Dimensions of Manhood


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