As Dads, we are pulled in several different directions. We have work, family time, household responsibilities, homework, sporting events with our kids…our list is endless. Is it possible to take just a small amount of time (just 30 minutes) to attend to our own health? For some of us, taking 30 minutes per day would seem like a daunting task or maybe even selfish. Part of being the best versions of ourselves means having the healthiest body and mind possible. With out those two critical components, we can become over stressed, tired, and burnt out.

Dad Edge Mailbox January 2021

The Dad Edge Mailbox January 2021

Today we check The Dad Edge Mailbox and answer some questions like:

Is it possible to have a fulfilling and passionate marriage after the kids?

How do we keep things fresh and exciting over the years and even decades?

In this world of busyness, how can we accomplish everything we want to do?

What are the skills we need to learn to become the parents our kids can always rely on?

Learn these secrets and more in this quick episode!

What You’ll Learn

  • It’s not our fault if we have a mediocre marriage, but it is our fault if we don’t do anything about it.
  • Marriage and parenting skills can and must be learned.
  • Self-care gives us the grounding and inner-reflection we need to be good husbands.
  • How to make date nights more than just a dinner out
  • What respect really looks like in a marriage
  • Drilling down your schedule to 3 daily priorities
  • Time-blocking strategy for productivity
  • Tracking the time you spend on social media
  • Planning your fitness first thing in the morning sets you up for success.
  • Using tactical empathy with your family
  • Creating an environment of psychological safety for your kids

RELATED EPISODES:

The Art of Negotiating with Your Kids with Chris Voss

Communication Mastery for Fathers with Chris Voss

The Dad Edge Mailbox for August 2019

 


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The Benefits of a Plant-Based Diet for Men with Fraser Bayley

The plant-based lifestyle seems to be everywhere lately, but is it really possible to maintain our bodies without animal protein? Won’t we feel tired and hungry all the time? What about our libido and testosterone levels?

Today’s discussion will reveal the surprising benefits of a plant-based lifestyle for men. Our guest is Fraser Bayley. He has founded Veg Up with his wife, Lauren, and together they help people cut through the confusion to achieve peak performance, an amazing body, and insane mental clarity on a plant-based diet.

You will hear how a plant-based diet can radically change your bloodwork, your energy levels, and your psychological wellbeing. You will also learn how being the healthiest dad you can be will make you more available for your kids while setting an example that will prime them for a healthy adult life.

Fraser Bayley

Fraser was a former butcher back in Auckland, New Zealand before he left the industry to study Nutrition, Human Structure & Function and Personal Training at the University of Auckland and Auckland University of Technology.

Coming from a former life of severe mental health issues, Fraser has spent the past 15 years deeply immersed in psychology & the human mind. Being an INFJ on the Myers-Briggs personality test, he seeks to understand the human mind as much as possible! These concepts are heavily woven into how he teaches their students all around the world.

He enjoys nomadic living & travel in their RV, hiking & outdoors, reading & learning from people from all walks of life.

What You’ll Learn

  • Where do men get protein on a plant-based diet?
  • It’s not what you consume, but what you absorb. Are you absorbing all the protein and nutrients in your current diet?
  • We’re meant to believe we need more protein that we really do.
  • You can play with your macro-nutrients if you get the same number of calories per day.
  • How to bridge your way through the transition to a plant-based diet
  • What vegging up does for libido and sexual performance
  • Hormone profiles and cholesterol levels before and after 90-days on a plant-based diet
  • Plant-based diet can help you train harder.
  • Micronutrient density drives energy levels and recovery.
  • Each person is different with the plant-based foods that work well for them.
  • Being in shape doesn’t mean anything if you don’t have quality of life.
  •  Before
    • Always tired
    • Moods all over the place
    • Anxiety
    • Needed a lot of caffeine
    • Acne
    • Visually in shape, but do not feel good
  •  After
    • Increased Energy
    • Mental clarityhttps://www.veguplife.com/
    • Blood glucose control
    • Emotional regulation
    • Less stress
    • Clear skin
  • How to begin becoming more plant-based? Start adding instead of eliminating.
    • Add more green vegetables
    • Try more plant proteins and find out what you like
    • Include more colors. Colors are micronutrients. Think of the rainbow.
    • Eat living foods (sprouts)
    • Add fermented foods (sauerkraut)

RELATED EPISODES:

Healthy Habits for Marriage, Fatherhood, and Fitness

Fit 2 Fat 2 Fit and Back Again with Drew Manning

Real AF Self-Discipline with Andy Frisella


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Mindset-Driven Fitness with Marc Hildebrand

Without challenges, we cannot grow. One of our biggest challenges as fathers is to make sure we don’t neglect our health. But learning how to take care of our bodies is the foundation that sets us up for success in all other areas of our lives.

Marc Hildebrand is a husband, father, and LAPD sergeant. He is the creator of First Responder Fitness and provides mindset, fitness, and nutrition solutions for those in the unpredictable career of being a first responder. After losing 100 pounds, he tells us from firsthand experience how to balance work, family, and fitness.

He talks about how outer success is a reflection of our inner growth, and that is why mindset-driven fitness is the only way to get lasting results on your health goals for this year and the rest of your life.

What You’ll Learn

  • Most dads feel like they have to choose between work, family, and fitness, but they can have it all.
  • The right questions bring the right answers. Ask yourself a solutions-based questions. “How might I make it possible to do what I need to do?”
  • How Marc lost 100 pounds
  • Lasting fitness is more about mindset than tactics.
  • The people you surround yourself with lift you up.
  • Your outer success is a reflection of your inner growth.
  • You can’t be a good role model if you’re not taking care of yourself.
  • Cop tactics for parenting—Slow down your speech and lower your voice to calm kids. Ask yourself, “How can I be most effective right now?”
  • You being under control will ripple to those around you.
  • The simplest things men can do to get tiny wins
  • Thank about what you put into your brain.
  • Start the morning with content that will put you into the right mindset.
  • Pick up a book or subscribe to a podcast that inspires you.
  • How to bring your family into your health and fitness lifestyle
  • Don’t push your wife and kids to join you, but model it for them.
  • Show your kids that you are constantly working. Dad is always willing to learn.
  • The 80/20 rule—20% of your actions produce 80% of your results.
  • What tasks are not bringing your results? Eliminate them.
  • Go all in on the 20% activities

RELATED EPISODES:

How to Optimize the 5 Dimensions of Manhood

How to Become a Patient Father in 37 Minutes


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Healthy Habits for Marriage, Fatherhood, and Fitness


Lockdown has affected us physically as well as mentally. Our relationships have been challenged like never before. But we have the power to recalibrate with healthy habits that will help our bodies, minds, and connection to our families.

Today we talk to everyday dad and Dad Edge Alliance member, Jordan Kaufman. He talks about the signs that warned him he needed to change, why he committed to an extreme health challenge, and how he will use his newfound resilience to keep making his body, mind, and marriage stronger.

What You’ll Learn

  • Step outside of arguments to keep your cool and solve problems.
  • Train yourself to have more humility and be less defensive.
  • Listen to what your wife is really saying and not to how it’s being delivered.
  • Apply the growth mindset to your marriage. You might not get it today, but you will get it down the road.
  • Approach disagreements with appreciation and curiosity. You don’t have to agree, just understand.
  • You’re in control of your thoughts, responses, and actions, no matter how you feel.
  • Help your kids solve the problem instead of reacting to it.
  • Jordan took charge of his health when he realized he was getting dad boobs.
  • Accountability is the biggest factor in the success of fitness goals and all other goals.
  • Take care of yourself in the between moments. Small habits add up to big results.
  • Use your fitness routine as time with your children.

RELATED EPISODES:

Real AF Self-Discipline with Andy Frisella

What It’s Like to Do the 75Hard Challenge

Start Reaching Your Goals with an Accountability Partner


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How to Become the Master of Your Schedule

Do you feel like a slave to your to-do list? Are the things you spend your time and energy on bringing you any closer to becoming the man you can be? Today we’re going to talk to an everyday dad about how to become the master of your schedule.

David Pickering is the married father of two and a member of the Dad Edge Alliance. He lived an average, comfortable life, but he didn’t feel like he was in charge of it. Every day was the same. He was “tubing down the river of life,” drifting wherever the current took him.

Learn what David did to take charge of his daily schedule, lose 60 pounds, and actively step into the bigger vision he has for himself and his family.

What You’ll Learn

  • How David unintentionally lost 60 pounds just by changing his daily habits
  • The importance having a daily routine
  • How to set the tone for the rest of the day
  • Being mindful and being intentional about your habits
  • The unexpected rewards of the #75Hard challenge
  • How he got his wife on board to do workouts with him
  • How to find the time for the requirements of #75Hard
  • How accountability partners help you experience breakthroughs
  • What kids will learn watching you discipline yourself
  • How to live through peer pressure or environments where you’re surrounded by your old bad habits, like drinking and junk food
  • How mastering your habits and your schedule can help you change lives

RELATED EPISODES:

Real AF Self-Discipline with Andy Frisella

Start Reaching Your Goals with an Accountability Partner

What It’s Like to Do the 75Hard Challenge


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Our biggest regrets in life happen
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how to have more patience

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Create an action plan to help you thrive in life and build the legacy you want.

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